Getting full NAKED in front of someone, even your partner you've been with for a long time can be quite overwhelming for so many.
A 1-night stand however sometimes isn't even as bad🤷🏼♀️... Well...I think in this case you know you're probably never see them again and you're wasted more often than not... but we can't be DRUNK everytime we have sex 😅🤣
So how do we begin to feel more comfortable and SEXY in our bodies - both when someone is there and when they're not?
This is very much a mental game people!! So when you look into the MIRROR and say things like omg my rolls, or my boobs aren't big enough, or they are saggy or my BUM is too big or too small. We are conditioning our minds to believe that! 🙈🙉 STOP DOING THIS 💗
There is no truth in whether something is too big or too small - WHY??? Because it's merely an opinion.
Look 👀 at it like this... if we wanted to have a big bum and you thought you had made progress in the gym, and said my bum looks big (that would make you feel good!)💗 Someone else who may thinks theirs is too big, will say it and it makes them feel shit.💩 Society has a way of conditioning us to believe we may look, act and be a certain way, and from that - we adopt our own beliefs about our bodies.😫
Can We Improve?
YES! It's fine to want to alter and improve, but we must learn to love our selves first because if you still say horrible things to your self, you could lose weight and it still won't be enough, you will still feel yuk when you have yourself to face at the end of the day.
So Where Do We Start?
Taking time for you, to get to know yourself AND your body is vitally important!💗 Because when we have these NEGATIVE beliefs about our bodies, it actually doesn't matter what someone else thinks 🤷🏼♀️. Even If your man thinks you're HOT as fuck with your clothes off, as soon as you're naked those negative beliefs about yourself are right there on your MIND!🤯
LOOKING FOR THOSE LOVE FEELZ👇🏽
Looking in the mirror, looking at your body may bring those feelings to the Forefront but in time you will begin to LOVE it more.😘
It took me 25 years to like mushrooms 🤣 but I was determined to like them, so I began tasting them until they didn't bother me, then I learnt how to cook with them to add flavours and now I LOVE them!
Experimenting with different SEX TOYS??
SPICING things up in the bedroom, whether by yourself at first or with your partner REALLY helps you to attach new feelings to your mind and body. 🤩
You know how GOOD an ORGASM feels or even just great sex without an orgasm, so when you look at your body you think that looks horrible, but focus on how it FEELS! and eventually you will RECONDITION your mind, to believe that it feels good so it looks good, then they will link together!👌🏼💥🤩
Don't be scared get right up close and really see what's going on 😆 and after a few times it won't look or feel as scary.🥰
I have linked a few top products that ensure you have a great time, FEELS amazing and enables you to get to LEARN about your body and LOVE your body - Thus LOOKING And FEELING More SEXY😍😍😍😍💥💥 😘💋👇🏽
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