BOOM and there you have it, that confronting conversation! How many of us our honest about that answer, that's if we've ever had someone with enough confidence to ask the question in the first place?
As you mature, you can definitely see a difference from when you were younger. Especially as a female, because females are supposed to be looked at as good girls in society. I would love to help change that!
I think the mindset for male and females in those years - teenage to 20's are so different!
Men are like rampant rabbits, get in and get out. Woman seem to kinda know what they want, but kinda not really, but too scared to ask, I think we can all relate somewhat to that.
As you get older things start to change, but sometimes people can still be afraid to say what they want, and then that tends to be the male that is holding back, as they are scared of rejection, scared it's too weird or not macho enough.
Because whilst women are looked at, as being good girls to take home to meet ypur mum, "Girls are not interested in going to strip clubs" for the most part thats just not true. We do have desires to watch porn, watch men or women strip, use #sextoys and want to be pleasured. Yet men on the other hand its normal for them to want to go to strip clubs (you only got look at any city and there is guaranteed to be strip clubs with female pole dancers) you got to really LOOK to try and find one with men dancers, you might find a show on a certain night - if ya lucky
Men's stereotype is that they have to be this macho grizzly guy ALL THE TIME. Studies and surveys have it, that's not always the case peeps.
Are you being honest with yourselves and your partner? So I think its time we all started be more open about our relationships, sexual desires, fantasies. Because you are way more likely to find those like minded people, life long partners and be comfortable - when we just be ourselves!